That's the ring he finally got me. I haven't wore it out yet to show it off and it's still in its box at home.. maybe, until I've sorted out my thoughts then I will. Maybe until Farley decides to do the right thing before I make any decisions. 

Marriage isn't just something you can jump into with any Tom, Dick or Harry. I've always viewed marriage as a big time, (not necessary that I need a big wedding reception to go along with it).

Until Farley does the right thing, I'm laying low for this couple of months. 

I don't expect an overnight change/result. I expect an overnight effort to be put in. And not just any kind of effort, the kind that comes from the heart and will stay throughout the entire relationship.